Rocker Power

charlotte airport rocking chairs  

We had a layover in Charlotte, North Carolina on our return flight from Denver recently. We'd been there before, but had forgotten the rocking chairs that are spread out in the lobby area. Every single chair was occupied. People of all shapes, sizes, and ages, were calmly rocking and chatting or working on their laptops. Rocking is a soothing kind of exercise.

 

lonely sad rocker

 

My Mom's rocking chair sat desolate and lonely on her patio for awhile when she was away. She used to sit in it daily for a little rock … and truth be told, to have a cigarette, although she has COPD. Some habits die hard. Winter or summer, she spent some time everyday in that chair. Everyone in the neighborhood stopped by on their way past to say hello. No internet or Facebook for her. The rocker was her social media vehicle.

 

rocker rejuvenation

 

She bought the rocker for $20 at Salvo's (Salvation Army Thrift Store for the non-thrifters among you) when she moved back to New England five years ago. It had a worn rush seat and she had it varnished back then, but it was showing its age. The rush had rotted and the wood was quite weather worn. David spent some time rejuvenating it over the past few weeks, put in a new rush seat and it's looking almost new again. Since she's given up smoking and relies heavily on her walker now, she doesn't spend as much time in the rocker, but it's there waiting for her.

I read that the idea of the rocking chair probably evolved from rocking horses or cradles. They just added rockers to common straight-back chairs and voilá … a rocking chair. Why should kids have all the fun? By the 18th century, there was a rocking chair on most everyone's porch. They continued to gain popularity and became a sort of status symbol for the elderly. There's nothing like an old-fashioned rocker for calming, soothing and nursing your children.

 

howdy doody rocker

 

I had a musical Howdy Doody rocker when I was a little kid. It played “It's Howdy Doody Time” every time you rocked back and forth. Sometimes I turned it upside down and just pressed the little button that played the tune. It used to drive my mother nuts which, of course, gave me all the more incentive to do it. Maybe that's where this rebellious nature of mine all started. Have a listen to the tune!

Nomophobia

mobile phones  

Yes, yet something else to worry about: nomophobia. It's a fear of being without mobile phone contact … NO...MObile..PHOne...phobia. The term was coined in the UK when it was determined by a study that people who lose their phones, run out of battery power or don't have network coverage, suffer the same anxiety that folks suffer when heading to the dentist's office or getting married. Yikes!

More than half the people (in the study anyhow) never ever turn off their mobile phones. Really? More often than not, we forget to turn ours on. I've been using my mom's phone since I got back into the States. When I do remember to charge it and then turn it on, I forget to take it with me when I go out.

We buy a new mobile phone in pretty much every country we visit. They're pretty much disposable … $20/phone and then pay-as-you-go service. We never get fancy phones … no iPhones for us. No, we get the type that still require you to use the “1” key for either ABC, “2” for DEF, etc. We must tap it until the proper letter appears on the screen. We seldom send a text that's error-free and sometimes the messages are rather bizarre. We buy them in order to contact vendors, marinas and other cruisers when the VHF radio won't suffice.

There is hope for all the nomophobes out there. There's a Mobile Phone Anxiety Advice Center.

 

no bars

 

I think if we were land folk full time, we might succumb to the constant need to be in touch. As it is, when we're at sea, we figure we're lucky to be in touch with the world once a day via SailMail (radio signal) and then mostly for weather forecasts. As for mobile signals, they're few and far between at sea and so far, we've managed without a satellite phone. Perhaps, we have mophobia... a fear of having a mobile phone and too much contact or perhaps it's just not important to us.

What about you? Are you a nomophobe? Can you go without your mobile phone for long periods of time...like say, 48 hours?? Would you want to?

 

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Tax Day...Ouch! Ouch??

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April 15th … the day all US citizens are supposed to file their income tax returns … or tell the government why they're delaying. Even though we don't live in the US full time any more, we're still required to file tax returns. Just in case you think we Americans are alone dreading tax day, we're not. Paying taxes is painful everywhere we've visited in the world. Politics, government spending, tax rates ...no matter where we go, these subjects are always good for some lively, if not heated discussions.

Completing tax forms ( according to Wiki Answers, there are some 1120+ active tax forms for the feds alone) and paying additional taxes, if required, are akin to root canals and giving birth … although I'm not trying to give either root canals or childbirth a bad rap.

It's nothing new. The ancient Egyptians groused about paying taxes as did the Greeks and the Romans. Taxes seem to be the price we pay for “civilization”. Though it's hard to believe, Americans pay significantly less federal taxes than many other countries of the world. Sweden tops the list and Japan is at the bottom, followed by the US. Oh, there's more though … sales tax, gasoline tax, excise tax, national parks, property taxes, unemployment taxes, Medicare and Social Security, self-employment tax. The list is never-ending. What is it they say? “Nothing's certain but death and taxes.”

The $2.5 trillion collected in US federal tax revenues pay for health care, military and national defense, highways, border security, cancer research, disaster relief, food and drug safety, education. Surely everyone in the US (if they live in-country) benefit, have benefited or will benefit from some or all of these expenditures. Everything costs money. Some things are more important to some of us than to others. If you're a farmer, or a miner or a baker, or a small business owner or a big business owner or from Maine or Texas or Arkansas, your priorities will differ. You can't please all the people all the time.

One professor recommends that just making the tax-paying process easier and more “gratifying” would go a long way towards making the process a bit more palatable. I just read a newspaper article about a group of tax scholars who recommend that the government should be marketing to its citizens what benefits they derive from paying their taxes. Instead of being the big, bad IRS, the author advocates more effort (and $$) should be used to educate folks just how their taxes are spent ... perhaps, even revitalizing the thought that paying taxes was part of their patriotic duty. They rationalize that people are more apt to part with their money more graciously if they agree with how it is spent. Just look at how well volunteer and philanthropic organizations do in coaxing money out of people. But spending more tax money to market to citizens, so they feel better about paying taxes … maybe not.

Check out a little tax day trivia here.

What are your views on taxes? Love/hate relationship? Getting a refund this year or paying?

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